Showing posts with label surf. Show all posts
Showing posts with label surf. Show all posts

11 August 2012

YOGA BITES : Make the most of gnarly waves and little ones

Everything everywhere moves in waves.  Wave motion is the movement of life.  Everything in the universe vibrates in wave-like patterns: sound waves, light waves, radio waves, ocean waves, seismic waves, heat waves, brain waves, peristaltic waves, even our breath, blood and heartbeats move in waves.

Here on the coast summer equals Lake Pacific, and deprived surfers tend to go a bit bonkers.  (Thank goodness this is also the Wild Rivers Coast where summer also equals river season!)  In perfect surfing paradise head-high waves would peel for miles, one glassy peak after another.  But in surfing, as in life, you've got to have the flat spells and micro swells to appreciate the excitement of the wild and epic rides.

Life is like a wave.  All waves come with crests and troughs, ups and downs, highs and lows.  These ups and downs are the constant play of the polarities of life.  Day follows night, fortune follows misfortune, and rain follows sunshine.  It is our attachment to having the “good” and our aversion to the “bad” that creates suffering.

Yoga is the art of riding the waves of life skillfully, of finding our balance and keeping our poise amidst the turbulence of life’s ever-shifting waters.  We can learn from our reflections on the mat so that we can surf the waves of life more gracefully, flow with change, and ride high on opportunity.  As we surf the waves of life we will have some epic rides and some gnarly wipeouts, sunny days and stormy days, long quiet lulls and swells of immense pleasure and pain.  We cannot control any of this.  What we can control is our response to each unfolding moment.  We can create some spectacular rides by responding positively to whatever waves come our way.  And remember, good or bad, no wave lasts forever.

If we are the surfer, life is the wave, and yoga is how we ride life’s rhythms, then our attitude is the surfboard.  Which attitude do you want to pull from your quiver today?  Can we stay centered in a state of observation, acceptance, and appreciation?  Can we face our fears, focus forward, paddle like the dickens, and commit to the drop?  Can we remain grateful for the lessons that each wave presents?  Can we truly allow life to unfold as it may?  Each day we practice we get stronger, we get smarter, and our intuition tells us which way to flow.  Through consistent practice we prepare ourselves to enjoy the good waves with all of our energy.

The next time you are on your mat, imagine that you are floating on a surfboard out at sea, gently rocking and rolling on top of the water.  Focus solely on the present moment with all of your senses.  Mind-surf perfect waves as you lay on your belly centered on your “surfmat.”  Paddle for the coming wave; breathe deeply as you use your whole body to propel yourself toward shore.  Arching your body like a banana, stroke one arm over the other and dig deep.  Feel the water between your fingers.  You can belly-ride this one or pop up to your feet by bringing hands under shoulders, pull the navel in toward the spine while pushing up to a half push-up on knees (hips in line with spine), activating and accessing your deep core lines place both feet under your hips as smoothly and quickly as possible.  One foot will naturally lead.  Start here.

Practice makes possible.  For Silver Surfer Pose press into Warrior II with the front knee over the ankle, back leg straight, feet grounded, toes in line with knees, and spine tall.  Let your tail and shoulders become heavy while your low belly, heart and head remain buoyant.  Bring hands together at chest, and exhale to turn and dive deep onto or inside the front thigh (maybe as low as the ankle) with your upper body.  Press strongly into your feet and inhale to float up.  Spin your heart to the front as you reach your arms, palms still together, overhead, now in a side bend over your back leg.  Allow your body to express itself naturally, fluidly.  Repeat seven or more times, then ease back onto your belly again, paddle, paddle, paddle, and pop-up switch-stance, now with opposite foot forward.  Remember alignment rule numero uno: if it feels good it probably is good, and if it feels bad it probably is bad.  Trust your body’s wisdom and flow in a way that makes you smile from the inside out.

If life was only paddle, paddle, paddle and charging big waves, when would we take the time to watch the pelicans soar, the osprey dive, or the whales breach?  When would we watch the sky’s colors dance like liquid light on the ocean’s undulating surface, smell the pure sea salt air, feel the offshore breeze tickle skin while the sun’s rays bring warmth?  When would we listen to the woosh of the waves breaking on shore, the chattering of the birds, the splashing of the fish, the barking of the basking sea lions?  Feel the tides and fog roll in and out like the breath.  Gazing beyond the horizon to limitless potential, then back to land where cares and woes now seem so far away, appreciate a fresh point of view.  Let’s celebrate the waves of life in all their glorious diversity, offer thanks to the Ocean Gods, and have faith that there’s always another wave coming.  Carpe fluctus!  Seize the wave!

02 February 2011

Everything I Need to Know I Learned from Surfing

Ask any surfer what surfing means to them, or even what surfing is, and you will have stupefied even the most studious subject.  Glazed eyes turn skyward, jaws dangle in the off-shore breeze, then babbling punctuated with stammering pours forth.  Surfing is, in a word, indescribable.  A surf mate would always ask what I had learned post-sesh.  A few months into my surfing education I observed that every session’s lessons provided parallel insights into “real” life.  Following are a handful of highlights from my ocean apprenticeship:

1. What are You Waiting For?  Why Not Do it Now?  Why is the hardest part of accomplishing anything simply getting started?  Why can it be so dang difficult to bring ourselves to do the things we know we need, even want, to do?  Since the vast majority of us have a tendency to be our own worst enemies, it may be necessary to look the enemy straight in the eyes and make nicey-nice.  There truly is no time like the present.  Lesson: Recognize excuses for what they are (the fearful ego’s subtle self-sabotage ritual guised as self-protection), and take the power back.  It gets no easier by not doing it.  Nothing ever does.

2. Go with the Proverbial Flow.  What is this mysterious flow we keep hearing about and where can it be found?  Why can something that sounds so swell be so slippery?  Lao Tzu asks us, "How can a man's life keep its course if he will not let it flow; those who flow as life flows know they need no other force.”  Lesson: Stop trying so hard to control everything and everything will fall right into place.  Release resistance and float downstream…it all leads to the ocean.  Let go and let flow.

3. Change Is the One Constant.  When it is all around us, why does it surprise us so?  All in this dream is temporary.  Waves come, waves go.  Our moon waxes and wanes.  High tide gives way to low tide.  Leaves grow and blow away.  Mother Nature’s cycles reveal truth.  There will always be another line on the horizon.  Lesson: Life is change and resistance only creates sorrow.  Allow life to unfold naturally.  It is what it is, and it’s blooming in perfectly divine order.

4. Attitude Is Everything.  How can the one thing we control have control over everything else?  They say timing is everything, but can perfect timing be ruined by a sour ‘tude?  Our attitude is our choice.  Whether you think you can or think you can’t, you are right.  Waves and life will slap your ego in the face on more than one occasion, so laugh off the sting and keep it cheerful.  Don’t judge anybody, including yourself.  Lesson: We can make ourselves happy or we can make ourselves unhappy; either way it is the same amount of effort.  The most successful person is the one having the most fun.

5. Baby Step Your Way to Greatness.  Why do we always want what we want as soon as we find ourselves wanting?  Isn’t it the journey, and not the destination, that matters most?  Are the only things worth achieving difficult to do so?  And what makes something “difficult” to you or to me?  Difficulty is relative and rooted in perception.  Tackle big stuff by breaking it into bitelettes to ease absorption.  What we get out depends wholly on what we put in.  Lesson: Greatness is born of countless little steps.  Keep paddling one arm at a time, and take each obstacle as it comes, one duck-dive at a time.

6. Rise to the Occasion.  Why is it so much easier to talk the talk than surf the surf?  Have you ever found yourself looking over the ledge of a big perfect wave only to pull back?  Why do we frequently manifest a desire only to shy away?  Gamblers know that the bigger the risk, the bigger the payout.  Do as Bonga does; once you’ve decided to turn and go for a wave, either make the drop or cannonball to the trough; either way you are going over the edge.  Lesson:  Buck up, buckaroo.  Channel fear into frustration, then parlay that frustration into focused determination.

7. Persevere, Baby.  How have we humans survived this long with such pathetically short attention spans?  Why is it so hard to see our own progress when we are submerged in it?  Trust the process and just keep paddling.  You are getting there, even if you don’t see it right away.  Paddle even harder and longer than you think you need to.  Lesson: Wipeout self doubt and replace with a healthy dose of sticktoitiveness.  Have faith in yourself and embrace challenges – they make you better.

8. Eyes on the Prize.  Have you ever noticed how easy it is to run into the very thing you were trying to avoid, like potholes or bosses when you’re playing hooky?  Whether I set my eyes on the green water ramp to my right or left, or down on the pit, I always end up where I was looking.  You can look where you’re going, or look where you want to go.  As Qui-Gon Jinn taught us, our focus determines our reality.  Lesson: Focus your eyeballs where you want your body to go, and focus your inner-eye where you want your spirit to go.

9. May the Force Be with You.  Who said that we are or should be top dog?  It is at once comforting and unnerving to know that there will always be forces of nature much bigger and more powerful than us.  Accept that the ocean always wins.  Jedi masters instruct their padawan learners to quiet the mind and become fully aware of the pervasive energy force created by all living things.  Lesson: Think less and feel more.  Align with source and tune in to your heartmind.

10. Gratitude Goes a Long Way.  Why is it so easy to take good fortune for granted?  How can the simplest thing mean the most?  Remembering that we are lucky little kooks to even be having this conversation is key.  It is a blessing, a privilege, and a miracle to dance with water.  Each wave is a uniquely precious gift, as is each breath.  Lesson: Savor the sweet ambrosia of appreciation, knowing that thankfulness attracts more to be thankful for.  Honor in your heart the way-show-ers who walked before you to illuminate your path.

11. Breathe Deep.  How can something so simple be so challenging yet so paramount?  Ancient yogis knew that peace, truth and joy can be found through mastering our breathing.  Every moment our breath is reflecting back to us our current mindset.  Think of it like this, our breath is the conductor of the orchestra of our mind and body, so the question is: what kind of inner symphony do you want to create and listen to?  Lesson: Breathe deeply, fully and slowly.  Drink the nectar of life force and feel it vibrating in every cell.  Slow the breath to slow the mind to slowdown time to shred in the matrix.

12. Get Out of Your Way.  Why does it always seem to be that the only thing standing in between me and what I want is me?  Why am I much more likely to wreck on a perfect wave than a mediocre one?  Accept where you are right now, right here.  Begin where you are.  Everybody started somewhere, and it only gets better.  Lesson: Think less, surf more.

Now, the next time you emerge from the ocean ask yourself what you learned, and then save yourself some time and energy by applying those pearls to life on terra firma as well.  Enjoy charging the waves of life.

23 May 2010

forever stoked

gliding smoothly
carving gracefully
floating peacefully
smiling joyfully
relaxing totally
breathing deeply
dancing freely
loving completely
radiating sincerely

learning steadily
being simply
appreciating fully

flowing spontaneously
charging powerfully
flying fluidly
enjoying happily
thanking daily
evolving endlessly

06 January 2004

salty ocean flower

in my awakening
in my deeper dream
the sea calls all unto her
she is calling me
child of this ancient mother
now dances with the tides
i used to go hard upstream
but learned to wake
from yesterday's lies
to be one salty ocean flower
never fooled am i